People rise to leadership because they're the most invested in the community. As for relationships... I only know of one actual marriage that involves my neck of the zelda woods. But there was a decent amount of heavy petting.
Didn't TSA's speedruns get disqualified for him being a big cheaty cheat? Gannon-banned indeed.
I did some brief digging and this is what I found:
I don't know much about speed running but the accusations are that he passed off segmented runs as single-segment.
I remember he use to post here and got a lot of attention whenever he submitted a new speedrun.